This made me think about authenticity in general. This is definitely a buzz word that a lot of people have latched on to. I think as a society, it is becoming more acceptable to be different and honest. Look at the success of television shows like Glee – making heroes out of the misfits in society.
I am definitely drawn to real authenticity. I like being around people who are flawed and aware of it. Not afraid to talk about their struggles and issues. But what I have noticed recently is a new trend towards “manufactured authenticity”. People who can talk the talk and know all the right words to say to appear authentic…but it is really just a thin veneer that when examined closely is easily recognizable as a façade.
I have to admit, I can do this myself. I know all of the right words to say. I can weave a good “story” about my life when asked, all the while hiding the truth about who I am. I can seem authentic while hiding the parts of myself that I don’t want people to know.
For me, the only thing I can do is continually ask myself if I am really being authentic. Am I walking the walk? Do my life and choices match up with my words? Am I really letting people know the real me or am I keeping a part of it shut off from the world?
I can’t force others to be authentic…truly authentic…but I think true, honest and real authenticity can shine the light on the façade that others are putting on. Sometimes the shiny, newness of the fake gives it away- like looking at a real antique table next to a Pottery Barn replica. The shininess of the fake is the telltale sign that something is not quite right.
I can’t force others to be authentic…truly authentic…but I think true, honest and real authenticity can shine the light on the façade that others are putting on. Sometimes the shiny, newness of the fake gives it away- like looking at a real antique table next to a Pottery Barn replica. The shininess of the fake is the telltale sign that something is not quite right.
I am going to have to mull this over some more….but those are my thoughts of the morning.
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